My Mother Called Me a Faggot! (Part 2)

So Picking up where I left off….

… She replied, ‘me kissing my boyfriend on the cheek and me dancing with my guy friends (the electric slide; mind you) was out of line’ and it took away from the evening. Her words to me were, “The party was a total success other people come [...]

Love Is Not An Emotion…

This is an excerpt from the book I am writing called, Lessons In Love…

It’s from what is currently chapter 4: “Learn”

“….I had to learn that love is not an emotion, love is spiritual means of survival and it’s interconnect to you the life force in ways I don’t know enough to explain. If [...]

Your The One… Just Not The ONLY One

I often wonder about the concept of a one true love, and if such a thing actually exist. And the short simple answer to that is no. In a world where monogamy is the norm, and fairy tales & story books form our adult concepts of love. But what works in the fantasy of [...]

Bry’Nt – Dating When Ur Young, Black & Gay

While doing my research for our interview I pulled up this quote from an interview Bry’Nt did with Metro Weekly ,”When you’re a teenager, and you’re new to this lifestyle, you can be very vulnerable,”Bry’Nt says. ”You don’t have anyone to show you how to date, you don’t have dating outlets.” And closeted men will [...]

Video Notebook – I am not a perfect person

Lessons In Love PArt XI: Love

“… Love is my permission to be who I am”
- Chrisette Michelle

Now getting into the meat of the series, this particular post will be a 3 parter. In my experience I often found myself asking where is love? Something that is supposedly ever-present seemed at times very absent. And I found myself trying to conform [...]

Lessons In Love Part VIII: One Night Stand

“Usually I’m the one that’s in control. I’ll meet em’, freak em’, leave em’, move on to the next man. He ain’t my man, he was supposed to be a one night stand.”
-Jazmine Sullivan
I myself am quite guilty of the old hit it and quit it. I’m person that believe in sexuality and sexual freedom. [...]

Lessons In Love Part VII: Is Your Inner Child Your Inner Brat?

 My horoscope today said this:
You are walking on the sunny side of the street now and even if you run into a problem, it won’t likely bring you down. Your creativity receives a boost as Mars enters your 5th House of Spontaneity today. Don’t over-analyze anything. Instead of weighing and balancing every decision, let [...]

Lessons In love Part II (Reissue)

I wanted to post this because I realized that I only posted it to facebook and not wordpress. and for those of you following these series this piece is important and I’m also adding a commentary.
Sacred Love
My Love, is an ancient love, is a royal love 
My love is a special love, father bless this love 
My love, [...]

Lessons In Love Part VI: Cheater, Player, or Polyamorous?

Thinking in the context of my own life and my own relationships, I think I’ve always been a one Man/Woman Kind of guy. Despite the bad rap that bisexuals get about being able to stay in a commented relationship.
But this isn’t about that. From what I’ve seen “Love” is never black & white, starting or [...]